September 13, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday Button!

Sweet Morgan,


You are two! It amazes me how quickly these two years have flown by until I step back and survey all the ways you’ve grown and things you’ve accomplished. For most every phase of your life so far, I have thought, “This is the best phase yet. I don’t want to move forward. Don’t grow up any more.” Then you subtly slip or boldly bound into the next phase and I think the same thing all over again. I’m sure part of this amazement with your growth and development comes from you being my first child and my naiveté in this daily learning experience called parenting. However, I will never forget going through this time in your life. I feel so blessed to be able to stay at home with you so I don’t miss a thing!



Your smile is still my favorite feature. One flash of that big grin melts my heart and breaks my defenses. It makes your eyes sparkle and your plump cheeks shine. I LOVE it! Your big brown eyes remain one of your most commented upon features by strangers. They truly are beautiful (thanks Grandma Schlueter!). Your hair is slow to grow out – much to my chagrin. It is a pretty light brown color that has grown even lighter as we spend time outside. Your bangs have required a few trims, but other than that, your hair remains at the nape of your neck. At the present, I joke that it looks like a Beatles bowl cut. However, it is long enough to pull in two small pigtails on top of your head. I just have to get you to leave them in!


You are incredibly verbal – more so than many other kids your age.
People are always shocked when they hear you speak in full sentences – never longer than four to five words, but sometimes you’ll even string together multiple sentences. And you mimic everything! Your dad and I have learned this the hard way on more than one occasion. Even your MDO teacher mentioned it after only your second day of class. I love the sound of your little voice, and I love hearing you say, “I nub you Mommy” which you often do spontaneously for no reason at all. You can also sing all of “Jesus Loves Me” and “Ring Around the Rosie”.


You love to read. Your favorites this year included, “Hug,” “If You Give a Pig a Pancake,” “Guess How Much I Love You”, “Farmer McPeepers and His Missing Milk Cows,” “Good Night Gorilla,” and “Tyson the Terrible.” When it comes to TV, Dora the Explorer is always the first choice. Your memory is also incredible. You remember things and repeat them long after even I have forgotten them. You even can tell us your first and last name which sounds mostly like “Morgie” or “Morgan” “Sheeter”. Long ago it seems you mastered naming animals and making their sounds. You can also count to twenty with your favorite numbers being two and eight. And you have just begun to nail down significant chunks of your ABC’s. We are now working on colors though you almost always answer “green” when asked what color something is.



Your favorite toys are your stuffed puppies, Sasha and Tramp. You won’t go anywhere without them, and consequently they have seen a lot of the inside of the washing machine as I disinfect them from some disgusting adventures you have taken them on. Recently, you have become a big fan of girly things like purses, bracelets, and necklaces. One of your other favorite objects is your Sleep Sack. Once you outgrew the ability to wear it, it became your blankie/security item. You won’t go to bed without it, and you would carry it with you all day if we let you. Consequently, we have two of them – just in case one gets dirty or goes missing. Also, whenever you hold it, you suck on your index finger.


You began to walk just a week or two after your first birthday. It seems you went from walking to running in no time flat. Daddy liked to say you went places in mini high speed. Then, of late, it seems you have turned from running to running away. You seem to think it’s a fun game for me to have to chase you.



At the start of June, you got an unplanned-for, premature move into a big girl bed when your crib got recalled. It blew my mind how easy the transition was for you. I had fully expected a protest and long struggle to accomplish the change. Nope, not you. You did sleep right behind the door for a few nights as though wanting to be as close to us as possible and had a few weeks of sleeping in the crevice between your bed and the wall, but eventually you got it. However, the true struggle arrived a month and half later when you learned you could open your door and come out of your room at bed and nap times. That was an unpleasant fight, but we got through it a few weeks later.


Mid-August you began Mother’s Day Out. I think it was a positive step for you and Mommy. You have thrived being around other kids in a social setting and under the instruction of your teacher and structure of your classroom. And I have found I have a renewed energy and joy for the time I spend with you by just having ten hours a week either for myself or to accomplish errands toddler-free. Only a few weeks into it and you already take off into your classroom with a smile and a quick, “Bye Mommy.” I’m so glad … and only a little sad.



As you move into the toddler years, we find ourselves wondering if your spirited strength of character is just a symptom of this phase of your development or a stubborn strong-will that we will have to deal with all your life. But we continue to pray daily that God guides us as we endeavor to be the parents that you need us to be and that will ultimately lead you to Him. We don’t take a single day of our lives with you for granted. You are such a blessing God has given us! We love you more than we can even begin to express in mere words and look forward to another year with you,


Mommy (& Daddy)

September 10, 2009

Winding down the summer

While Labor Day typically indicates the end of summer, for us it meant VACATION. We hadn't originally planned on taking a vacation this summer after all the travel we did earlier in the year. However, after so many of my friends went of vacation (sometimes multiple vacations), I just couldn't resist the urge and began submitting my petitions to Jonathan. Once I received the go-ahead, JD & I settled on a long weekend down at the Gulf Coast, staying in Corpus Christi.

JD warned me ahead of time that CC is not like Hawaii, our normal beach destination. He had both his and my expectations set low so we both were very pleasantly surprised when we realized just how wonderful the beach was there. The water was clear, the perfect temperature, and of a shallow grade that allowed for plenty of area to play and wade into the surf. Even Morgan, who I fully expected to flip out at the sight and sound of the water, enjoyed herself -- though, granted, the sand was a bigger hit.

Our vacation had a little something to appeal to the whole family. I'm a sit-on-the-beach-and-soak-up-the-sun type while Jonathan is a go-and-see-what-there-is-to-see type. Morgan is too young to voice many opinions or objections, but we threw in some activities there for her too. I got my requisite time on the beach and in the water, JD got a visit to a retired aircraft carrier (the USS Lexington), and Morgan got a trip to the Texas State Aquarium where she could see dolphins (one of her favorite animals). Add into that mix a daily nap (sometimes for the whole family), an early bedtime, and lots of good food (that I didn't have to prepare) and we were all happy.

What Morgan learned this trip: That it stinks to sleep in a pack-n-play in the bathroom. This is a major downside to not renting a suite. Next time we may look into a condo even.

What we learned about Morgan this trip: That she now understands the concept of "home" and may be a homebody. After waking up the first morning, she said, "I wanna go home" and repeated her request at least once each day we were away. This was interesting to us because we have traveled a lot with her, and this is the first time she has ever made such a request.

All in all, a really great trip! And nice to know that we have a close 2 1/2 hour beach getaway available to us next time we get the hankering. Now we just wait for the Texas heat to get the message that summer is over...

First walk on the beach


Catching waves

Another walk on the beach


Building our family sand castle

Highlights from beyond the beach

The best blackberry cobbler in Texas

USS Lexington

Dolphin show at the Aquarium

Taken while waiting on the dolphin show -
oddly, probably one of the best pics taken of me in awhile

August 22, 2009

Button Goes to School

The day I waited a year for finally arrived last Tuesday - the beginning of Mother's Day Out 2009-10. Last year Morgan didn't qualify for MDO because she missed the age cutoff by 12 days ... a fate which will likely follow her her entire school career (sucks being a September baby someimtes). Needless to say, I was beyond stoked a month ago when it was announced that MDO would be starting a few weeks earlier than anticipated and even more elated when that day made its long-awaited arrival last week. I was one giddy mommy last week as I dropped off Morgan for her first day. I'm sure my smile was so wide I could've been in a toothpaste commercial.

Now before you go berating me for not being sad over my daughter's first day of "school" or wanting a few hours away from her, let me just remind you that the program is called Mothers Day Out - not Kids Day Out. So yeah, in a way, it's all about me :) But honestly I feel that my entire family ... and potentially all those in my little life ... benefit from this lady feeling happy, refreshed, and well-rested. I'm pretty sure my other stay-at-home mom friends will back me up on this.

But alas, it isn't all about me. I really am excited for Morgan to have social time around other kids her age as well as be in a structured environment where she can both learn and have fun. She now has two weeks under her belt. Her teacher's comments so far have ranged from "She's a good eater" to "She loves to dance" to "She might speak Spanish" (because Morgan mimics EVERYTHING anyone says and the teacher has to speak Spanish to one of the other students). One thing she hasn't mastered yet is the nap time concept. I'm sure napping on the floor with seven other kids might be a bit distracting. But at this point I don't mind because it means I score an additional two hours of quiet time while she naps once she gets home.

I know she's settling in though. This morning when I dropped her off, she went straight to the table to color, turned to me and said "Bye", and set off to her crayons letting me leave with no show of sadness or fear. On the flip side, I have begun to love returning to pick her up in the afternoons because she is always so excited to see me. What a great feeling.

I already wonder if her teacher knows what a gem she's dealing with in my daughter, but then I'm a little biased. And so begins the next sixteen years of schooling...

Morgan's first First Day of School picture ever.

A few nerves for Morgan and Annabelle -
both expressed by sucking on their fingers.

Morgan next to the ladybug with her name on it.

A hug goodbye for Mom.

August 21, 2009

My lipstick says I need to see a therapist

I can tell you that all my lipstick-wearing life (which actually only started in college {cringe}) I have been subject to comments, laughs, and ridicule for the shape of my lipstick. It's done me such emotional damage that I've tried to "fix" the way I apply my "Mulberry Bush" by Jane. But alas, said attempts have all been efforts in futility.

So when I see this chart (below) about what one's lipstick says about their personality, I can only come to one conclusion ... that I'm crazy. Or that the beauty magazines have run out of fodder to print. The closest I come to any stick shape on this chart of "theirs" is the Sharp Angles, Both Sides. And I agree I'm spiritual, curious, and love life, but I beg to differ that I have a big ego, seek attention, or am in any way mysterious (don't I wish).

In fact, there is a method to my application madness. I use my lipstick under the simple concepts of minimum waste and maximum utility. Therefore, when I apply, I try to make one wide stroke to cover my entire lip instead of making several smaller passes. As a result I think I use up a large amount of surface area on the stick creating a harsh slope. Once the initial slope is established, I rotate the stick to start using it from the opposite side so that I don't waste a perfectly good, unused side. This creates a funky looking point. It is here my minimum waste mentality is confronted by the problematic structural integrity of my lipstick's fragile point. This point eventually breaks off mid-application leaving me frustrated and having to start the process over :(

What do you think... Am I certifiable? What do you think my lipstick says about me? Have you ever seen someone whose lipstick looks stranger than mine? What does your lipstick say about you?



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Slant close to original shape

Abides by the rules, Great follower, Doesn’t like too much attention, A little self-conscious, Reserved, Schedule driven, May occasionally want to attract, Attention: dye hair, new outfits.

Rounded tip to a point

Loveable, Family oriented, domestic, A “doer”, Stubborn over little things, Exaggerates, Needs people around.

Rounded smooth tip

Easy-going, Peacemaker, Even tempered, Steady, Likeable, Generous.

Flat top

To the point, High morals, Very dependable, Quick minded, Loves challenges, Careful about appearances.

Sharp angle tip

Opinionated, High-spirited, Dislikes schedules, Selective of friends, Outgoing likes attention, Argumentative.

Flat top concave

A great detective, Make friends easily, Inquisitive, Adventurous, Complex, Exciting.

Sharp angled box curved tip

Creative, Enthusiastic, Energetic, Talkative, Loves attention, Falls in love easily, Helpful.

Sharp angles both sides

Spiritual, Curious, Seeks attention, Mysterious, Loves life, Big ego.

July 27, 2009

What I Love About Summer

Summer just has such a special essence about it - one that I think kids just breath in the moment they wake up and fuels them through each day. I have such fond memories of summer days when I was a child, but as I grew older, summers lost a bit of their glimmer as the time was filled with employment or studying. Thankfully, having a child of my own has revived my senses to summer's essence. And how sweet it is to savor the joy anew with Morgan. Even sweeter still to present her with some of the quintessential summer experiences, like...

POOLS!


POPSICLES (WHILE IN THE POOL, OF COURSE!)


SPRINKLERS PLAYED LIKE A HARP


SPRINKLERS USED AS A WATER GUN


DRINKING FROM THE HOSE


ICE CREAM

July 19, 2009

What We've Been Up To...

Now let me explain what I/we've been up to during my prolonged silence...

Memorial Day weekend: My brother-in-law Matt surprised my sister Steph with a trip here for her birthday. Of course, my sweet niece Maddie (who is four months younger than Morgan) came along. Despite the above picture of toddlers-being-toddlers, the girls had a great time together, and Jonathan & I had a great time with Steph & Matt. We even had a kid-free double date where we went to Wildfish (pricey but really yummy - and this comes from a non-fish eater) and watched Terminator: Salvation. Definitely a memorable weekend that we hope we don't have to wait another two to three years for ;)

Two weeks later: Dad and Mom came down to visit. It's always great to get to spend time with my folks as we don't see them near as often as I like. And now that Morgan is getting bigger, it's even more important to me that Morgan knows her grandparents. While they were here, we visited the President Lyndon B. Johnson Ranch in Johnson City which was free and totally worthwhile. Mom also installed a swing in the backyard for Morgan, and Dad helped Jonathan lay more than 100 pieces of sod. Beyond that, we did a lot of just hanging out together and visiting. It was great. I felt spoiled after having family come twice in three weeks time.


Herbener Family Reunion/Fourth of July: We saw lots of out of town family over Father's Day weekend for a family reunion and the Fourth of July. Morgan became particularly enamored with Jonathan's Uncle Tom (who married us) and Aunt Kay, now known by Morgan as Tom-Tom and Kay-Kay. We're glad they live up in Arlington so they aren't as far away as some of the rest of the family. In fact, we are already contemplating going up to be with them in the fall (as well as catching a Texas A&M game at the new Cowboy stadium).


Visit with Aunt Jenny: Last sumer Jen & I (and Morgan) got together once a month during her summer break. Unfortunately, this last week was the first we were able to get together this summer. As Morgan is older this summer than last, she was able to more fully comprehend just how "special" it is to have time with her Aunt. They read Morgan's recent favorite book (several times), and Aunt Jenny gave Morgan her own private piano lessons. It was so cute to hear Morgan say "Play again Jenny" and "Read Jenny." I grew up with awesome aunts so I'm really glad Morgan is building relationships with hers.

In addition to these things, we have made a few trips to Fredericksburg on weekends, joined the gym and started going three times a week, caught a summer flu bug, volunteered for a week of VBS at our church, and crammed in some CLE and playdates in between it all. Summer fun... Whew, I need a vacation!

Father's Day Photos

Yes, yes, I'm aware that it's been quite awhile, but hey, here I am so give me a bit of a break please :) Again, if you really want to keep tabs on me, I would strongly encourage you to sign up on Facebook.

I thought I'd share with you Morgan's latest pictures taken for Father's Day. At that time, she was 1 year and 9 months old. So as you can calculate, that puts here on the fast-track toward the Treasured Two's. I hope we're ready!